Medications as Treatment for ADHD

When my son was in kindergarten, I attended my very first parent-teacher conference. I remember sitting across from his teacher, listening as she kindly but firmly described the challenges he was facing in the classroom. She suggested the school psychologist evaluate him to see if there were underlying issues contributing to his struggles.

I agreed to the evaluation but was immediately overwhelmed when medication was mentioned as a possible course of action before he was even given a diagnosis. The thought of putting my 5-year-old child on Ritalin was terrifying. Fueled by fear and a lack of understanding, I requested the testing be stopped and told the school I wouldn’t medicate him. Looking back, I realize that decision was made out of love—but also out of fear and a lack of education.

That first, tear-filled parent-teacher conference was just the beginning of a long journey filled with many more tears and challenges. It wasn’t until my son reached the 6th grade that we had him formally assessed. He was diagnosed with Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD) and ADHD. While the diagnosis brought clarity, I couldn’t help but wonder how different those early years might have been if we’d had the right tools and information sooner.

If I could go back, I would do things differently. I would have thanked the school for their input and sought out private testing right away. While I’m still unsure if I would have chosen medication for my young child, I know that having a clear understanding of what was going on in his brain would have helped us support him better.

Now, over 10 years later, I work in the public school system as a school counselor, supporting neurodivergent kids every day. My experiences with my son and my professional training have taught me so much about helping these children thrive—not only in school but also in life.

Over the years, my perspective on treating ADHD has evolved. While every family’s journey is unique, there are a few myths about medicating an ADHD child that all parents should consider:

1. Natural Supplements Are Not a Replacement for Medication

Many parents, myself included, try to explore “natural” solutions first. I reduced my son’s sugar intake, increased his protein at breakfast, removed artificial dyes, and even applied essential oils to his feet and behind his ears every morning, hoping they’d help him have a good day at school.

While these efforts can be beneficial, it’s essential to understand that ADHD is a neurodevelopmental disorder with strong genetic roots. Diet and supplements may support overall health, but they are not a substitute for evidence-based treatments. ADHD often requires a multi-faceted approach, including medication for many children.

2. Medication Alone Is Not the Solution

Medication can be a game-changer for children with ADHD, helping to reduce impulsivity, improve focus, and create the space for learning new skills. However, medication is only one piece of the treatment puzzle.

As the saying goes in the counseling world, “pills don’t teach skills.” While medication can help regulate symptoms, it’s crucial to teach children the skills they need to manage their ADHD in daily life. Time management, emotional regulation, and effective communication are a few of the executive functioning skills that ADHD kids need to be taught in order to succeed.

3. Parent Training Is Key

One of the most effective treatments for ADHD is parent training. When parents understand how their child’s brain works, what strategies are most effective, and how to create environments that support an ADHD brain, the entire family benefits. Kids need parents who are equipped with knowledge and tools—not just discipline or frustration.

Parent training helps families move beyond survival mode to a place where their child—and the family as a whole—can thrive.

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If you’re at the end of your rope, wishing and praying for solutions to help your ADHD child, I want you to know you’re not alone. I’ve been there, and I’ve spent years learning what works.

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